Tuesday, 27 October 2009

  • FIFTY THINGS ABOUT GUY

        


    1. Guys hate sluts.

    2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ Two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

    3. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

    4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

    5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

    6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

    7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-

    how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

    8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

    9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

    10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

    11. Guys get jealous easily.

    12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

    13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

    14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

    15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

    16. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

    17. Guys are very open about themselves.

    18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

    19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

    20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

    21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

    22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

    23. Guys will brag about anything.

    24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you.

    25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

    26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

    27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

    28. Try to be as straightforward as possible.

    29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

    30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

    31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

    32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

    33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

    34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

    35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

    36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

    37. Guys don't really have final decisions.

    38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

    39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

    40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

    41. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

    42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

    43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

    44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

    45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

    46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

    47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

    48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

    49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

    50. No guy can handle all his problems by his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it

Monday, 26 October 2009

  • BAD GRAMMAR COMMENT

    Thought I have learned English, I don't think I can speak or write English frequently yet. Yesterday, I have a comment about bad grammar in my blog in my other site and I feel that this people is just trying to let people down and asking people to stop blogging. First off all, even big time blogger who earns 5 to 6 figures income have bad grammar. Moreover, English is not my mother tongue. If you could do as much without having grammar mistake in all languages and at the same time not a student or anything related to linguistic, I will salute you.

    By blogging, I strongly believed that I can write better, and I tend to read much more. So why not give others a chance to become better. One thing I know for sure is that language could not be learn by book, practice is needed. This is what I am doing here and writing about something I like.

    Therefore, I hope that all bloggers do not get discourage with people commenting like that. You should welcome correction on your grammar or any mistake you have done but not insult of any kind. They are just not giving others a chance to be better person.

    Hopefully I can improve myself here, not only can I communicate in English but also make more friends around the world. I am going to write always some stories. Apparently, I will make some mistakes, so much I hope all the persons who read my stories would understand!


Thursday, 15 October 2009

  • VICTIMIZING

    Why don't we love ourselves and feel pity instead? Why do we confuse these two words "love" and "pity"?


    I know it is too ordinary to write about the importance of loving the self. However, some of us really deny it. It's easy to victimize ourself rather than loving.


    "After all I did, look what they have done".

    " I did everything for him but he never cared for me. "

    " I devoted my life to my children in the past, but today they even don't call me. "

    " I was the only one who was there for him when he got into trouble but he didn't appreciate my efforts. "


    They sound familiar right?


    Since we always feel sorry for ourselves..we want, the others to feel the same way too! What pity!


    How can the others know that we don't value ourselves? They surely aren't aware of this and they don't act accordingly. They don't see us as victims, they just think that we did something for them because we wanted to, not for making them happy and being appreciated as a reward. Self-value and self-esteem can develop only if we love ourselves and stop victimizing. If we really want to do something for somebody, the reason must be our will, not our pity that we feel for them.


    What we feel for ourselves what we feel for other. Besides what we want for ourselves is what we want from others. We mustn't become dependent on being dependent on.


Tuesday, 13 October 2009

  • I THINK WOMEN SHOULD BE WORSHIPPED

    I wish I could make all women understand this. I see and hear women that are in abusive and hurtful relationships. They allow certain men or partners to run them and treat them like nothing.


    I want to take these women and shake them lovingly make them turn and look in the mirror and make them see what they really are, before someone in their lives made them feel small and hallow; before they were made to feel insignificant. I want them to see themselves as the extraordinary creatures they are.


    In every womens life there is a time she didn't feel good enough that she didn't live up to stereotypes she sees everywhere she goes. But we need to talk that veil that covers our eyes and obscures the true view of who and what we are and rip it away.


    I stand in front of my mirror and see my physical charms, my shining eyes, the sensuous curves of my body that make me female, I see that beauty and I am proud. But I refused to stop there. I see also the beauty and strength I have inside. I have worked hard not to become just an object, a toy! I am a three dimensional work of art, one that understands and loves, one that is strong enough to bring a man to his knees but compassionate enough to know how to treat him once he is there.


    Ladies, we are divine, we are strong, our beauty has been painted and sculpted, lusted after, and killed over.


    I only hope that all the women whether mature, young, voluptuous and thin, conservative, shy or wild take a chance to look into that mirror and realized the adoration you all deserve for being the goddesses you all are.


    I am goddess and I deserve to be worshiped do you?



Saturday, 10 October 2009

  • SO THE DRAMA...

     

    Before I start, I'd like to admit, yes, I totally just plagerized the KIM POSSIBLE Movie title. But given everything, I'd say it's a fitting title.


    Jha-jha, our little dog, is a little wild child doggies: always climbing a breaking things. This weekend alone, she's broken two glasses, and a limited edition collectors plate from Hongkong. There's also been numerous lego chewing, toy ripping and display breaking incidents.


    She hasn't responded to anything we've done: disciplining her doesn't work. Playing with her for being good doesn't work. Were now following the vet's advice of keeping her locked up in a room by herself, and only contact with one of us. A couple of days like this should break her bad ways--But  if that doesn't work it looks like Jha-jha days with us are numbered....if they're not already!


    So my housemates rang up our friend, who own Jha-jha's mother, and asked if she could take her back, she just not responding to us.

    What a can of worms that opened!

    All the shit was dragged up on two different Facebook status, neither my friend nor my housemate were happy with just the one status argument.


    But we were called irresponsible pet owners again. Blamed got the death of Pumpkin--another dog I used to own. She wasn't happy when I moved into this current apartment and was destroying it in her attempts to escape. So, I handed her over to this friend since I knew that she'd be happier there. She was hit by a car at some point because of this, and I don't know how she wasn't hit by a car. We were also accused of neglecting the animals, despite the fact the other dogs are perfectly happy and don't cause us any trouble.


    I still hadn't entered the argument by this point: I was determined to sit on the fence. But since my honour and good name got pulled into with the Pumpkin thing, I entered and added my two cents worth about Pumpkin being hit by a car sooner or later.


    That was too much!


    Suddenly this friend dropped off the face of Facebook world. We couldn't see her comments, nor could we find her profile anywhere.


    I really don't want to lose a friend over something so stupid.

    But then again, if she's going to over react and do all this shit, she's probably not a friend I want anyways.


    Oh, and I should also add that by doing things, she's practically sealed Jha-jha's fate if the solitary confinement things doesn't work--off to the pound and take her chances of getting a good home there.